it is not your fault
my job is to teach you, help you, guide you.
my feelings are not your fault.
you pooped in your pants today and i got so upset. for two hours. you gave me so many hugs and kisses. said “i’m sorry, mama.” said you would not do it again. said no peeing or pooping in UD’s car. no peeing or pooping in your pants. only in the potty. “sorry, mama.”
during final cuddle at bedtime, i started telling you my favorite part of the day, spending time with you and dada at the mall. you interrupted and said, “i pooped in my pants. sorry, mama.” my heart.
it is not your fault. you are doing your best. learning a brand new skill. i’m sorry i got so upset. it is not your fault.